Christmas morning has always been a time when I wake up and allow the night's euphoria to settle down; a time when I take a second look at my presents and remember the people who gave them to me; a time when I reflect on the things that hold meaning and the people I love.
Christmas Eve 2007 was special. In the midst of a busy wedding preparation and house renovation schedule, Sue and I were still able to spend time with the people close to us. For me, the Christmas Eve lunch with my cousins was precious in that it was a rare gathering for us - only the second time in thirty years that we have gathered together as cousins with no reason other than to spend time with each other. Sue and I have been together for almost two years, and I've been blessed to see how close her family is. It's since been my desire to also see my family grow closer. Really hope to start a tradition of gathering the cousins on Christmas Eve - and more than that - to see us walk through the journey of life together...
In the evening we headed over to Sue's grandma's place to enjoy the family Christmas dinner. What was meaningful was the time spent together. Family members shared that when Sue's grandma passed away more than a year ago, there were some fears that the family would not meet as often and be as close as they have always been. They gave thanks that this did not happen. Instead, the Christmas dinner was also a time to remember Sue's grandma and the full life that she led. All was made more meaningful when we headed over to the house of a close friend of the grandmother - to share with her the Christmas love and join our voices in song.
It's different when we choose to remember the meaning of Christmas from the perspective of someone whose life had been changed by the first Christmas - when God first came to earth in the form of man. That's why we commemorate this season through the sharing of love - the love that was first given to us. I'm postulating that one of the reasons why God gave us families was for us to experience to a small extent the intimacy and love that He shared within His own "family" - the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
