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Blog EntryNo Greater Love Jul 30, '07 2:03 AM
for everyone

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose."

These words by missionary martyr Jim Elliot have resounded in my heart ever since I first heard them many years ago. They reveal the heartbeat of Wheaton College graduate Jim Elliot, who chose to surrender his worldly career and life to God, venturing into Equador against conventional wisdom and making first contact with the Auca Indians, a tribe known for their brutality. Jim was later killed, along with four of his friends, by the Aucas, who had mistakenly assumed that the five men intended to eat them. The entire tribe later came to give their lives to Christ through the work of the Holy Spirit, after Jim's widow Elisabeth took her daughter Valerie to live among the tribe for two and a half years. The ministry of Elisabeth and the other widows touched the Aucas as they could not understand how these women could forgive them despite what they had done to their husbands.

I was reminded of the Elliots' story yesterday after watching a musical staged by Mt Carmel BP Church entitled Love Above All (the photo above depicts a young Elisabeth who was at that time experiencing emotional turmoil, torn between her love for Jim and her love for missions).

Attending the musical with a group of youth leaders whom I'm mentoring, I posed a question to them - Was it "worth it" for Jim Elliot to make the trip to the Auca Indians? While I'm interested to hear their response, I'm personally at a loss regarding how to answer my own question. I mean - is the loss of human life ever "worth it"? Even if it results in the salvation of an entire tribe? What about the current hostage crisis in Afghanistan and the death of the Korean pastor? Was it "worth it" for the Koreans to make the trip in the first place? Even if through this incident the entire Christian community has been rallied in prayer? I don't know the answer; only one person does. 

John 15:13 reads "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends." It was because God first loved us, that's why He sent His son Jesus to descend to earth as a man to die for the salvation for all mankind. There is indeed no greater love than this.

I'm certain that Jim and Elisabeth Elliot fully understood this principle. In her book Under the Shadow of the Almighty, Elisabeth shared the passion behind her decision to travel with Jim into the mission field. She wrote about Jim's unwavering decision to give up a respectable job as a teacher to pursue his calling. It was the same for her - that's why she chose to forgive those who killed her husband and made the unimaginable decision to instead bring her daughter to live among the Aucas. I'm certain these were choices that were modelled after a man who chose to die so that all humanity be saved - the life of Jesus the Christ.

 


Blog EntryA Celebration of Life - Passing on a LegacyDec 2, '06 10:54 AM
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Sue's Grandma was called to be with the Lord this morning, 2 Dec 2006, at 11.08am. She went peacefully in her sleep, surrounded by her family, just the way she probably would have wanted it to be. Looking back at the past weeks' events, I can only say that the timing of Mama's departure couldn't have been better - her dearest youngest son only managed to fly back from Canada yesterday at 6pm, because he was delayed by an unusual snowstorm back home.

The short six months that I've known Mama have been most memorable. From the first day I met her I was greeted by a feisty old lady who seemed to love me so much - her smile was so warm and her touch so loving - something that has no doubt rubbed off on her family. I felt truly blessed by the warmth with which Mama accepted me and loved me - on more than one occasion she had asked about me even through I was not there. She also showered me with gifts - chocolate - and on one occasion tried to give me an extra big ang pow even though there was no special reason.

Mama had a deep love for food - something also close to my heart. Up till her last week she had still verbalised her cravings for root beer, ice blended mocha and durian puffs. And she shocked her whole family on more than one instance - asking about my Ah Kong - and even offering to marry him!



I spent last night stringing together a series of photos to be used during her funeral service tomorrow. The pictures told the story of a regal lady who had confidently brought up six children in the best way she could. Up till today the family still meets every Sunday at her place, and even though she had been bedridden for more than ten years, she had still maintained a quiet sense of optimism which was contagious among her family members. Indeed one of Sue's cousins wrote on her blog that although she felt she had been "commanded" to go to Mama's place when she was young, as she grew older the routine became more natural, and it gradually served as a chilling out time among the family.

I feel the greatest legacy Mama has left behind for the family was her love for God. It was most beautiful that the family had gathered together to pray for her at her death bed. I have seen no other family as close as Sue's family - and it indeed brings joy to my heart to see a family that is so loving and caring - and so accepting in every foreseeable way...

As one of Sue's aunts commented to me one evening, she was caught in a dilemma between wanting Mama to remain here on earth, but at the same time knowing that there is a better place for her in Heaven. This morning it was especially meaningful because another aunt was praying that Mama would rise on wings of eagles. It was then that she uttered her final gasp and departed to be with the Lord.

The family intends tomorrow's funeral service to be a celebration of the life Mama had lived, and a thanksgiving unto the Lord for all He has provided for them and for Mama. I know Mama would have it no other way. The legacy she has left behind resonates strongly in every member of her family - and it is indeed a joy that I would one day become part of this family.




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